I guess all is going good in your life, right! If yes then its cool and be cool and if not, then do you know why this is so? TINK...THINK....THINK....! NO IDEA, RIGHT! If you don't know why your life is not going according to you then you are on right place just go through my blog here is the answer for your question. You know who is responsible for such an unorganized YOU, YOURSELF! Do you know HOW?? OK no problem...Lets check it out!
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BEGINNING OF NEGATIVITY |
LETS GO TO THE PAST i.e. CHILDHOOD
Many years ago from today you came to this world with a beautiful body and an amazing brain. That time you were so small to think that what to think or what to not. As time goes you are growing and growing, now you reached to that time where you start understanding the things,things like what your parents is telling you, what your teachers are teaching you, all stuffs!
Now what actually happened teachers and parents who are themain heroes for you, sometimes says such stuffs that they shouldn't. We know they don't say it intentionally but it could affect us a lot. It could change our whole THINKING. That time we are so innocent that what our parents, our teachers are telling to us we believe. We know nothing about ourselves, what we know is, what our heroes are telling to us. There words are the starting seed of our thoughts, our lives! There positive words can make our thoughts positive and there negative words can make our life negative.This is the starting of our life.
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THOUGHT TRAIN |
LETS SEE YOUR PRESENT NOW
You grown up with whatever stuff whether negative or positive. If its POSITIVE then you feel like
- You are awesome
- You are not less than any other person
- You love yourself, take care for yourself
- You have high self esteem
- You can express yourself in front of other people
If its NEGATIVE then you feel like
- You are in hell
- You are not enough good
- you lose your confidence
- you feel low self esteem
- you compare yourself with others always
- You make your fear priorities and never let yourself do what you really want to do
All these are the results of the WORDS that we are hearing about ourselves from the very beginning. Now next step what we do is, we make our situation more complex by SAYING same negative words to ourselves like 'i am not good enough', 'Hey i can't get success ever' etc. We say such negative things to ourselves as we have no idea how much it is affecting our brain, our personality, our life and we let our brain saying these words to us. This cycle repeats ' we say negative to brain and brain says negative to us' and results ' we believe' and then ' we grow' and ' we achieve what we believe' and life goes on!
WHAT REALITY IS AND WHAT WE SAY IS
Now we think what we were taught in our childhood and what we are saying to ourselves is the reality of ourselves.
BUT IS IT??? NO!!!! ITS NOT!!!
Real we are, is not that person with whom we are living right now, we are something else, we are someone with a great potential, with a great power of achieving anything we want to in our lives!!
Nothing has lost yet, Stop thinking right now what you are not..Start thinking of what you can and what you want to be!
THINK WHAT YOU ARE SPEAKING TO YOURSELVES!!!
THINK, IS IT TRUE WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO TELL YOURSELF!!
IF NOT, THEN STOP!!
AND START SAYING WHAT IS REALLY GOOD FOR YOU!!!!
PRACTICE IT DAILY!!
AND SEE THE WONDERS YOU DO!!
YOUR LIFE IS YOUR CREATION
Wherever you are today, is only on your creation. Yeah, what ever you had been told by your family, teachers does matter but what matters more is what you are going to say yourself. We can't stop ANYONE by saying anything wrong to us but we can stop OURSELVES by saying anything wrong to us. And when we learn this art no one can dare to tell us who we are, and you will be the person who become an idol for every other person.
I have experienced all these things in my life and i want to share this as i don't want any other person to feel the same as I have felt in negativity. I believe you can, every can do this, and can live your dream life with full enthusiasm!!
THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK TO YOURSELVES!!
CHOOSE ONLY THOSE THOUGHTS WHICH IS HEALTHY FOR YOUR BRAIN AND OFCORSE FOR YOU!!
HAVE A GLITTERY LIFE !!!!
Great to see you here.Very nice thought buddy.My best wishes to you. Go ahead :)
ReplyDeleteThank you sooo much raghav.... :-)
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